Mistakes to Avoid when Mediating your Divorce

What Mistakes Should you Avoid When Mediating your Divorce?

Divorce mediation is a process in which a neutral third party helps a couple come to an agreement on various aspects of their divorce, including property division, child custody, and support. It can be a cost-effective and less adversarial alternative to going to court. However, there are some common mistakes that you should avoid when mediating your divorce:

  1. Not being fully prepared: Before going into mediation, it is important to have a clear understanding of your financial situation, your goals and priorities, and any potential roadblocks to reaching an agreement. Take the time to gather all necessary documents and information, and be prepared to discuss your concerns and preferences.

  2. Failing to communicate effectively: Communication is key during mediation, and it is important to be clear and direct when expressing your needs and concerns. It is also important to be a good listener and to try to understand your spouse's perspective.

  3. Allowing emotions to take over: Divorce can be an emotional and stressful experience, but it is important to try to keep your emotions in check during mediation. Being angry, defensive, or confrontational can hinder the mediation process and make it more difficult to reach an agreement.

  4. Failing to consider the long-term implications: When making decisions during mediation, it is important to consider the long-term implications of those decisions. For example, agreeing to a certain custody arrangement or property division may have consequences that extend beyond the immediate future.

  5. Not hiring the right mediator: Choosing the right mediator is crucial to the success of the mediation process. Look for someone who is experienced, neutral, and has a good track record of helping couples reach agreements.

Please contact Deitchle + Simone if you need more information or an attorney to represent you during your divorce.

Categories: Family Law